Some of the most memorable weddings are defined not by spectacle, but by intention, thoughtful collaboration, seamless flow, and an experience that feels genuinely welcoming. Honey & Lavender Events brings that balance beautifully, pairing refined design with a deep respect for both guests and the vendor team behind the scenes.
I spoke with Christina and the team at Honey & Lavender Events about their planning philosophy, wedding-day priorities, and the details that transform a well-planned event into an unforgettable one.
The Types of Couples and Weddings Honey & Lavender Events Loves to Plan
Christina and the team at Honey & Lavender Events love working with couples who value collaboration, not just between partners, but across the entire vendor team.
“I love planning weddings for couples who value collaboration, the guest experience, and respect their vendor team,” Christina shares. “Couples who have a clear vision but also care deeply about their guests create weddings that feel both intentional and welcoming.”
This approach results in celebrations that are elevated yet warm, polished yet personal.
A Planning Process Built on Communication and Trust
At the core of Honey & Lavender Events’ process is communication.
Their planning begins with truly understanding each client’s vision, priorities, and needs. From there, they offer thoughtful guidance and recommendations while working closely with vendors to align expectations and execution.
“My goal is to bring together my clients and their vendors in a way that executes the vision seamlessly and without added stress,” Christina explains. “And to have a great time doing it.”
By acting as a connector between couples and their vendor team, Christina of Honey & Lavender Events ensures nothing falls through the cracks, allowing couples to stay focused on the joy of the experience.
One Thing Couples Often Realize Too Late
One of the most common planning pitfalls? Not hiring a planner or waiting too long to do so.
“You don’t necessarily need full-service planning,” she notes, “but having wedding day management handled by one trusted professional is crucial.”
Relying on multiple friends or assuming vendors will fill in the gaps often leads to unnecessary stress. A planner acts as an advocate, overseeing both the small details and the bigger picture so couples can truly enjoy their wedding day.
The #1 Tip for a Stress-Free Wedding Day Timeline
Trust and presence.
“A stress-free timeline comes from letting go of the small things and knowing your planner is managing any changes or delays,” Christina shares. “They’ll loop you in when needed, but their job is to take the pressure off so you can stay present and enjoy the day with your loved ones.”
When couples trust their planner, the entire day flows more naturally.
What Makes a Vendor Team Amazing to Work With
For Honey & Lavender Events, it all comes down to trust and teamwork.
“There’s a unique energy when every vendor respects one another and works toward the same goal, an unforgettable experience for our clients,” Christina explains. “Every vendor plays a vital role, and when everyone shows up willing to help, it’s amazing to watch how smoothly everything comes together.”
That sense of mutual respect and collaboration is often what sets truly exceptional wedding days apart.
One Piece of Advice to Truly Enjoy Your Wedding Day
Take a quiet moment together.
“Whether it’s right after the ceremony or before the reception begins, the day moves incredibly fast,” Christina advises. “Stepping away for even a few minutes allows couples the chance to reflect, connect, and fully absorb the experience. It’s the beginning of their marriage.”
Those small pauses often become some of the most meaningful moments of the day.
Favorite Wedding Venues in DC & Virginia
Christina and the whole Honey & Lavender Events team loves working at a wide range of venues throughout the DC and Virginia area, including:
- Dahlgren Chapel — a timeless, intimate ceremony space filled with meaning
- National Museum of Women in the Arts — an elegant venue with endless possibilities and an incredible staff
- River View — a nature-filled setting with stunning views and a relaxed yet elevated atmosphere
- Iron Gate — perfect for intimate weddings, known for incredible food and a romantic ambiance
- Dauphine’s — an unexpected gem with beautiful décor, exceptional cuisine, and versatile spaces
- Columbia Country Club — while traditional at first glance, the staff’s care and partnership truly set it apart
Advice for Couples Who Want Amazing Photos and a Relaxed Day
“Be realistic about your photo priorities and choose a photographer you trust,” Christina mentions. “When you feel comfortable, the day feels easier — and the photos reflect that.”
Clear communication and trust between the planner and photographer allow couples to relax, knowing meaningful moments are being captured naturally.
Connect with Honey & Lavender Events
Couples interested in working with Honey & Lavender Events can learn more here:
- Website: https://honeyandlavenderevents.com/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/honeyandlavenderevents
Thank you!
Thank you to Christina and the entire team at Honey & Lavender Events for sharing such thoughtful insights and perspectives. The emphasis on collaboration, trust, and guest experience is exactly what creates wedding days that feel seamless and deeply meaningful. It was such a treat to learn more about everything you all love to give each couple you serve!
If you’re planning a wedding and found this spotlight helpful, be sure to explore the rest of the Planner Spotlight series or reach out if you’re looking for a wedding photographer who values thoughtful timelines, collaboration, and a calm, well-supported wedding day experience. Love to all!
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